An argument

At first the girl W said she was desperate looking for a place for a short stay and later she want to store her personal luggage. I always thought helping others comes much important than everything else but I didn't really know where the boundary is until I created this awkward and embarrassing situation for everyone. While I have caused this unpleasant experience, I am now able to see where I went wrong. I shall always carefully understand and observe the Utown policy. I believe this incident also allow me to learn and prevent similar issue in the future.

On 1st August she found a house outside the school .She thought i‘t too expensive for her ， so she asked me to move out with her.I agreed with her，and checked out the room in school，but a bout 14th August ，I realized that the house which she wanted to rent is illegal, we cannot put our luggage in our room,so I went back on my word and decided not to cancel my accommodation in school, but she moved out .From that time she become not friendly ,but she told me she had to store her personal luggages in my room .  I don't agreed,but she said she will give me some payment(A) in return,and borrowed me her Bank card to pay my accommodation fee,then I paid back the money to her.(now I realize it's also a mistake,we don't write anything to prove I give her the cash) After that she was so unfriendly that she had quarrel with my roommates when she came to read books or do something else in the daytime. In 21th August evening，she told me she could live with someone else and asked me to pay off the money.The next morning,she came and took away her things and told me she don't want to  give me the payment(A),which we had a deal earlier.I only wanted to talk with her,( i have class in the morning) but she threat me she will go to find the office if I still asked her for the payment(A).I'm angry with her threat.That’s why I quarrel with her,then she went to the office.

 I am extremely sorry for my action.I realized I am in singapore ,because we have different culture that we have different point of view . Confucius said give a hand to the people who was in need is more emergency than what are you diong now.So I will help her at first.I hope you can understand that I‘m make a mistake with good intentions.

Significance of Effective Communication

As we know , university is a society in miniature , the communication skills is a singnificance role in various social settings,  so, it is very useful for us to take the course and practice different communication skills.

For example, I'm a exchang students.  As you know,I am a stranger in this place.so, the skill and the courage to communicate in a  different culture become a key determinant of my quickness adaptation in the new circumstances. As a matter fact, effective communication is not restricted to language. More specifically, one should be confident during communication and the use of various suitable gestures can also have perfect effects.

In fact, I realize those skills are pivotal in the workplace and in my university with classmates and professors,  Last semester, I did my internship in the China Mobile. In fact, it is my first-time that I truly dig into the professional world. I would be hard-pressed to imagine that without effective communication skills how I can finish my task during the six months. It is a nice experience for me and the communication with the boss can eliminate plenty of misunderstands and enhance the efficiency.  What’s more, the communication in the leisure time like playing football , drinking coffee together,   celebrating one’s birthday or simply chatting during lunch can exert really beneficial influence on the relationships between colleagues.

 effective communication skills are really keys for success and the command of those skills are surly important for one’s life.